If you can judge random refugees, and can only cite cases you have heard of that were in newspapers without having ever met anyone, what makes me wrong for what I feel I can judge, when you rely on the media to tell you about how you should be terrified of "others"? What makes the hate valid?
Hate is never valid. My distrust comes from personal experience, at the least (and even then, I can acknowledge that the feeling is wrong, and will probably leave as soon as I can feel secure and safe again, or at least find someone who gets my frustration for what it is). Fear sucks.